Define Love

What is the definition of love? How does one define love?
To be in love and to love someone is consider two different things.
To define love you would have to be in love. But what is it to love someone.
How do you know the love you feel is real? Is it the butterflies you feel inside, or is it the pain you feel and the tears you shed on the outside. Or is it when you cant stand to be far apart from each other?

The single thought of just having each other warms your heart and gives a breath of sanctification.
So much dedication, to the relationship, bringing two opposites or exact replicas together for a perfect fit.
What does it mean to be qualified for a perfect fit? To have a perfect relationship?

You may say it's impossible to have a perfect relationship, but is it? What makes a relationship?
The first time you laid eyes, the very thought of your lover makes you smile and laugh, the jealousy, the sacrifice, the fights, the make-ups, and even the break ups, the i hate you's and i love you's. The lies and the truths, and lets not forget the forgiveness. There's your perfect relationship.

Everyone wants to find "the one". So they could fall in love and settle down. Do you think that's what it means to be in love? To be able to settle down with that "perfect" one. Love. To be able to spend your life with that one. To put a vow in marriage and be able to fight through all hell that breaks loose. To be able to put things in the past and not look back. To over come and conquer. To Love one another. So now tell me, are you in love or do you just love? And have you yet defined your love? Because not everyone has the same definition of the love you create with "that one".